Is it Ok to Ask a Guy Out?

 

Tired of waiting on your crush to step up to his rightful position as the man of your dreams? It's tempting to want to kick off the relationship by asking him out on a date, but is that the best way to get a guy?

Guy Advice: Why Is He Avoiding Me?

This guy I like texts me stuff like "u looked beautiful at church today" or "u r so pretty" but when we see each other at church, he avoids me. Does he like me? If he does, why does he avoid me? Should i tell him i like him? - girls for god fan

Q&A: Guy Advice for Tweens

Dear Melissa,

I'm 12 and have a crush on this boy who i have known for 6 years. Do you have any advice?

A Guy's View: What Guys Want in a Girl

Zachary, 21, reveals what guys really want in a future wife.

           

 I was asked recently what a Godly man finds attractive, or rather what he looks for as he seeks a wife. This is obviously a loaded question because we are all so very different; both men and women. There are, however, a few things that hold true for everyone who professes faith in Jesus Christ. Here is what the Bible has given us, as men, to qualify “an excellent wife.” This list is pretty crazy but it is so true.

Quiz: Is He a Prince or a Frog?

Is the guy you like worth keeping? Take this quiz to find out!

1. His friends...
a) are fun, godly guys
b) are typical guys, I guess
c) are troublemakers with a crude sense of humor


2. When he's with his friends...
a) he includes me
b) he tries to include me sometimes
c) he ignores me or excludes me from the group

Guy Talk: Is Modesty Attractive?

"As a Christian guy, modesty is SO attractive. I don't mean attractive in a lustful way, but that to see a girl living out God's standards in her life really is beautiful. And you have no idea just how much you would be helping your Christian brothers by being modest. We're not trying to blame you for our impurity, that's between us and God, but you can do so much to encourage and help us in our battle by being modest."
 -- real teen guy, age 16

GuyTalk: Appearance & Character

GFG: What qualities do you look for in a girl?

"Godliness first of all; a basic knowledge of who God is, and a basic understanding that He is pretty much The Boss. Beyond that, nothing physical matters especially to me except that they take care of themselves... shower, try to dress at least slightly flattering (No ugly sweatpants or baggy t-shirts, girls! Even I don't wear that!)... I mean, nothing on the outside is all that important, except I don't want to feel like I need to shower and shave every time I hug and kiss my hunny. [smile]" - Jacob

Guys Speak on Modesty

“When I see a girl who’s wearing revealing clothes, I can tell that she doesn’t have very much self-respect, and I wish someone would go up and tell her that she’s worth more than that.”—Josiah, 17